It depends entirely on personal matters. However, in the case of a family-arranged marriage, it is advisable to talk about some stories, talk about your likes and dislikes, etc. This means that it is a must to take initiatives to reduce the shyness that arises due to the novelty between the two. It is inappropriate to have sex on the wedding night of a newlywed couple - according to sex experts. However, if you have a love marriage, then it depends on you. Also, be careful if there is anyone listening at the window.
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Tips for the first night of marriage – Basor Raat Health Tips
Age has passed, spring is coming one after another, but many are now in a state of apathy. I am talking about the young people. Those who dream a lot about marriage, have also made warm plans of what to do after marriage. They are flying the lantern of imagination by reading/watching stories-novels-movies-dramas or listening to friends, but the lantern will suddenly become futile, if the imagination is not a realistic plan. Since many people do not have personal experience of physical relations or early activities after marriage, in most cases these young people sit with various wrong ideas. Along with that, many are confused by pornographic films-books (chatti) and the exaggerated experiences of many. Some sit thinking in a specific format, and after marriage, when they get here and there, they get tense. Some do not want to go towards marriage at all due to inferiority complex. The second category is further aggravated by the Magha-Unani leaflets distributed on the streets. This is an intro. Details will come in the next episodes. The topics will be based on what to do after the marriage is fixed. It is like a gift from the married brothers for the bride and groom. Therefore, the married brothers are being invited to open their minds and give their suggestions on various issues. Efforts should be made to prepare them well for the marriage without scaring them. The marriage is fixed, the ring ceremony is over.
Now the wedding preparations are in full swing. The wedding will be held in yellow and the date of the wedding will be fixed, then the dowry, community center, how many guests, how much to give at the gate, etc. etc. These will basically be done by the guardians. What is your job as the groom?
To-do 1: Mobile numbers have definitely been exchanged by now! This is very important. Many things can be fixed before marriage through mobile phones. Many mental and physical issues will be discussed which are very necessary for life after marriage.
Optional: Let's talk a little about fixing the wedding date. Many people discover on the wedding night that their newlyweds are on their period. So the plan of "getting married on the first night" is ruined. Although it is not a very urgent matter, the period will end in a maximum of 3-4 days. Then as per the plan... but if you are free with a girl or any of your relatives, you can try it. For example, if you have a fiancée, tell her that she should not have any physical problems during the wedding. Fiancées are "smart" on this line, so you can understand the hint and ask the bride-to-be about the date of her next period and play a role in fixing the wedding date. Even then, many times, due to the tension of the wedding, many times girls start their period untimely. So, I repeat, it is not a big issue.
Do 2: Be free with the bride-to-be. Since the conversation on the telephone has started. This time, start talking to her about various physical issues. But stay calm. If you start directly in the first 1/2 days, it is dangerous. Think about how to start yourself. Remember that in this modern era, girls know everything. The source of knowledge is the same as you. There is no need to look at it negatively. Rather, look at it positively, think that her knowledge will make your job easier. However, even if girls know, they will not reveal it, because they will be afraid that you may misunderstand them. So take the first step. Start talking about things you know, but theoretical things.
Do 3: Stay physically healthy and strong. No, I will not talk about eating any nuts or salsa. Just eat a spoonful of honey daily. It is better to mix it with milk. And eat normal food. Do not let your belly grow too much. The first impression will be bad on the wedding night. And drink plenty of water. Your face will stay fresh. In the next episode, we will talk directly about the preparations for the wedding night. What to buy and keep with you. If anyone has any questions about this post, I urge you to do so. And I hope for the opinions of the ghazals of this line.
Do 4: Buy lubricant or gel. Buy lubricant from a good pharmacy. Friends also give gifts many times, but if you are waiting for that, it is dangerous. This lubricant does not mean car lubricant. It is surgical gel. Let me name a good quality lubricant. Johnson & Johnson's "KY Jelly". You will find it in big pharmacies, they will say KY Gelly. And with one tube, ten or twelve friends' families will start. Because it does not take more than one. Many people use coconut oil, glycerin, etc. because they do not get this surgical gel. Both of these can cause rough, even condoms to burst. Never use glycerin in its raw state. Mix it with water and use it. However, the use of glycerin is generally discouraged. Why and how to use it: We all know more or less that the entrance to the genitals of unmarried girls is very narrow. That is, your penis will not enter there easily even if you want to. Along with this, there is a hymen or a septum or a veil. So, failing to enter at first, you become very disappointed. Without getting tense about it, first fix your assignment "I have to enter". You have to enter this narrow path by force, force means using force, and naturally your partner will feel pain. So do not use force like a bull, do it with love. Apply gel on both places and try now, if not in a day, then in two days. Even if it takes one or two more days, the effort will be less, the anxiety will be reduced, the pain will be less, and you can start sooner.
Tips for the first night of marriage – Basor Raat Health Tips
Some misconceptions:
First of all, many people also want to test the virginity of the newlyweds during their first intercourse. Don't forget to do this. There is a common belief that a virgin or unmarried girl means that she will have a hymen, so the husband will tear it and marry her. This is ridiculous in this day and age. If you ride a bicycle, run, or play sports, the hymen will break, so it is natural, the husband does not have to take responsibility. If no one finds the presence of a hymen, do not sit around and have a bad idea about the newlyweds.
Secondly, another misconception is that if there is no bleeding, the girl is not a virgin. Believing this is like foolishness. If the hymen has already broken, or if you use lubricant, there may be no bleeding in many cases. So these are not standards.
Thirdly: After reading various porn stories, many people think that during sex, the vagina will be wet with slippery cum, so get up..go, there is no need to use a separate lubricant. In fact, that is not the case. This fluid will come out only when you are excited. And it is not so easy for a girl who is afraid and ashamed of leaving her new parents to get excited. Even many do not feel any feelings at first. So there is nothing to be afraid of if the fluid does not come out, take your time for a few days, it will be fine.
Fourthly: Seeing the elasticity and softness of the breasts, many people want to find out the touched-untouched condition. If it is hard-tight or untouched. This is the biggest stupidity. Our girls are physically soft by nature. So the breasts can also be soft. Don't expect the taut breasts of a movie heroine from your wife, because showbiz people spend a lot of money and exercise to keep their breasts taut
Fifth: Boys who are used to masturbation since their teens are often afraid of getting married. Reading the leaflets of Magha-Unani and discovering that his "thick head and thin bottom" will not be possible to give happiness to his wife with him. This is a cruel joke. Don't get tensed about these things and jump down to get married. Do you see so many people around you? Are everyone just scumbags? We all want an innocent wife. And if I am inexperienced, I would expect the same from the newlyweds. Above all, if someone has a suspicious mind, everything should be cleared beforehand. Before engagement or marriage, find out all the information about the girl. Don't worry about these things after marriage. Remember, once the insect of suspicion enters your mind, it will settle there. So, be clear about everything beforehand. After marriage, no tension about the previous issues. Start loving from the state you found it in.
Do 5: Be confident, don't run to the doctor unnecessarily. Many people suffer from guilt due to self-indulgence in their teens, and they worry whether they will be able to show their competence in physical love. Many people run to the doctor. It's not that you can't go to the doctor. However, if you are physically healthy and have a daily erection of the penis (in the morning, which is called "morning glory"), then there is nothing to fear. The risk of going to the doctor is that many people can use this opportunity to earn a couple of bucks and do you harm. Many people go to frauds like Magha-Unani, or if they go there, their life will be hell. However, one thing is not taken into account in the case of men, and that is urinary tract infection or urine infection. Urine infections are caused by some bacteria, and men get them through using toilets. All men have to use public toilets more or less. Treat the toilets in the university halls and offices as public toilets here. These toilets are used by different types of people. And many toilets do not have a good water system. If one of them has an infection, then if he does not flush the toilet properly after using it, or if a new user uses it without flushing it with water, the bacteria in the pan will attack. If you do not use water at all, you will get an infection.
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